Seelan Govender

1984 - 2008
LocationJhb
Age24 years
Cause of DeathAccident
Date of Birth15/04/1984
Date of Death25/10/2008
Visitors2,541 since 22/12/2008
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Seelan Govender, a charming young man ws laid to rest on 29 October 2008.

Seelan definetly added definition to the cliche "one in a million" ... he possesed qualities that most people spend years in trying to attain.

Its so hard for me to refer to him in the past tense as Seelan is still very much alive in my heart ... there are so many questions with just no answers ...

Seelan was the life of every party, the highlight of everything ... he embedded nothing but good memories in all our hearts and minds and today we can all say we indeed KNOW a great man.

Seelan and i planned our entire lives together, little did we realise how short it actually would be ... i find myself in a place of absolute no regret as together Seelan and i made the best of our relationship ... we both loved, we were both loved and we know exactly what is like to be HUSBAND and WIFE.

To a man of great stature and integrity, a man of few words but possesed an incredibly huge heart ... i salute to you baby ... you have made my life so much more precious ... i remember you in everything i say and do...

Words cant even begin to express my feelings ... just know I love you with all my heart and soul and my love for you is just growing every second of every day.

I promise to be there for your family ... and to do my best to make you proud....


R.I.P "smallboy"


lots of love

"baby girl"

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happy birthday

My my, has it been long or what> happy birthday cuz.. may u have a splendid day

love kimmy

Kim Govender (Cousin)

April 15, 2011

Hey you!! Thank you very bringing my friend back to me, I knew we would find each other again.

A promise I make to you Seelan is that as long as I am alive she will never battle again and Shanu and I will take care of her the way you would have.

We had a suprise bday for Shanu on sat and missed you terribly but when that glass broke I knew it was you sipping some of that KWV.

Love and Miss you....

Shanu and Lee-Anne

Lee-Anne Pillay

May 27, 2010

happy birthday! Damn man u getin old lol...dont hve 2 nag u 2 stop playin ur music and go slp coz u kpn da neighborz up dis year...bt im sure u givn da angels a tough tym in heaven lol...mis u so much,mis ur smyl,laugh,voice,touch,i jus mis u...hve a great day up der,up in da crescent moon.love ya.

Natasha Govender (Fiancee)

April 14, 2010

hey you!!!

whats happening, i see the angels are keeping you really busy, you dont even visit anymore.
I had a dejavu moment last night, wasnt very nice and i went to a sound show on Sunday, the 1st since you left ... ag it just doesnt have the same feeling anymore ...
life has changed so much ey, i cant even begin to describe it ... i feel like such an idiot right now but hey i guess you have to go through your wrongs to find your right ...
i let my guard down and allowed me to deteriote in the process,but like i say everything happens for a reason.
i really wish you were around now, i need someone to talk to ... no one understands me, the way i feel or think. They just critically analyse everything,i somehow cant have my own mind anymore.

I dont hate you for leaving, i know it was Gods plan, youre far better off than me in anycase ... have you met my mum yet????? pass my love if you have ...
o i got a new job, im just picturing your expression ... lol ... yes blackie i know!!!

anyhow ... i know you well, and i pray that things get better on this side ...

cu soon

lotsa love

Natasha Govender (Fiancee)

March 17, 2010

howsit! Gosh man,time has passed us by so quickly,lee is right so much has changed since u left,wel im sure you know all about it. You know im back in durbs,for good! Ja ja i know,you can leave da lecture for when i see you...so what you geting up to,obviously much more peaceful...im highly emotional...so until we meet again. Lotza love

Natasha Govender (Fiancee)

October 22, 2009

Hey Friend

Hope you ok...

Boy have things changed since you left us, I can hardly believe that it will be a year on Sunday. You have no idea how much we miss you.

I sometimes hear your laugh and "What kind when I walk into the Hamptons" but look around and realise you ain't there.

We miss you and wish you were still here...

Thanks for looking out for us...we still feel your presence everyday...

Love and miss you always

Shanu and Lee-Anne

Lee-Anne Pillay

October 22, 2009

Hey Cuz,

Firstly i want to apologize for all the commotion yesterday. But i am sure you saw and watched everything. I am also sorry that i couldn't observe the whole prayer but please no that i was thinking of you and i was very upset aswell. Wish i cud be were you are so that we both could laugh about everything. I hope you liked what Bodtho and Sash said. Anyway did you check Nikiel he look just like you.

Ok i got go now but i will be back to fill you in on more of the family drama... you what i am talking about......... Jart!


Love Kimmy

Kim Govender (Cousin)

August 31, 2009

Hey Bru

Long tym hey, anyway i have been thinking about you alot lately. There's been so many good and bad things that have happend lately, im sure you know what im talking about. i miss u. i miss how you always changed everything around just so one person could smile. No one ever does that anymore.

Im feeling lost .. please give me some guidance dude ,i really need it. Im feeling very sad lately feeling cheated about certain things wish i could ask you what your thoughts were.

Love you lots hobo.

Shavani Govender (Sister)

May 23, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR SEELAN, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ... HIP HIP ..... HOOOOOOOORAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

happy birthday Seelan.

hope you having a better time where ever you are.
we all love and miss you so much and wish you were here to celebrate this day together.

take it easy champ

have a beautiful day.

mwah!

Natasha Govender (Fiancee)

April 15, 2009

hey Mr G

how you keeping ...

was so lovely speaking to you the other day, as usual i get what i want ...lol

well i have some of my answers, i still dont understand why you could be so careless, could you not see what was happening?
im wearing my famous brown jacket today, and i had it in teh cupboard next to yours, i was telling my friend at work that i could smell you and we both laughed.
then i realised its the jacket. i feel so at home wearing it, like you inside of me or something ...
feels like last winter when youd come see me in the evenings and wed cuddle up talking and youd fall asleep in the middle of a very impt conversation.

i miss you so much Seelan, i wish i could go back in time and not of even left the house that Friday.
i dont regret the things that are happening now,it feels good, but still wish you were around.

take it easy baby

love you!

Natasha Govender (Fiancee)

March 18, 2009
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